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Behavior Shaping & Gradual Steps Toward Positive Change

Behavior shaping is one of those fundamental ABA techniques that sometimes gets overlooked while designing behavior plans. Yet, it holds incredible potential to create lasting, positive change for learners in meaningful and manageable ways.

Shaping involves breaking down complex behaviors into smaller, more achievable steps and reinforcing each step until the learner reaches the desired outcome. It’s simple in theory, yet powerful in practice.

What is Shaping Behavior?

At its core, shaping uses differential reinforcement of successive approximations to develop a target behavior. What does that mean? Essentially, it means identifying the final goal behavior, breaking it down into smaller, achievable steps, and providing reinforcement for progress at each step.

Instead of waiting for a learner to perform the full skill all at once, shaping allows us to build that skill over time, creating a pathway for success without overwhelming them. Perhaps you’ve encountered a situation where a skill was taught as an “all-or-nothing” behavior.

For example, imagine teaching a child to wear their coat before heading outside in cold weather. Some may try to enforce the expectation that the coat must be fully on for the learner to access reinforcement. However, what happens if the learner refuses? The situation might escalate, resulting in frustration for the instructor and the learner. Shaping provides an alternative.

By reinforcing small steps toward the goal behavior (e.g., touching the coat, placing one arm in a sleeve, etc.), we create opportunities for success rather than battles over compliance. Reinforcement becomes a tool for motivation and progress rather than frustration and shutdown.

Why Shaping Matters

Shaping is much more than a teaching tool. It’s about creating pathways for success. By focusing on progressive approximations, we can help learners feel capable and celebrated for their efforts, even if they don’t immediately meet the end goal. This approach reduces frustration, increases participation, and builds trust between the learner and their instructors or caregivers.

A key benefit of shaping is that it works so well in preventing challenging behavior. Often, when learners are faced with demands that feel too large, they may react with challenging behaviors. By reducing the size of the steps and reinforcing effort along the way, shaping makes tasks feel manageable, reducing the likelihood of challenging behaviors.

4 Steps to Shaping Behavior in Practice

1. Verbal Behavior & Communication

One of the most common examples of shaping is in teaching verbal behaviors. Picture a learner working on requesting a preferred item, like a cookie. If the learner cannot say, “Cookie,” waiting for the full word may be frustrating for the learner and the therapist. Instead, shaping allows us to work with whatever the learner is capable of in the moment.

The process can begin with reinforcing any vocalization. If the learner says, “Ah,” we recognize and reinforce that initial effort. Over time, the target may shift to a closer approximation like, “Coo” and eventually progress to saying, “Cookie.” Celebrating each step toward the final goal boosts confidence, fosters communication skills, and lays the groundwork for more advanced language learning.

2. Teaching Daily Life Skills

Shaping can also be applied to teach daily life skills. Imagine a child who struggles with sitting at the table to complete homework. The table signals “work” for them, which might feel overwhelming. Instead of requiring the child to complete an entire worksheet, we focus on the smallest steps toward that goal.

The child might gain reinforcement for simply acknowledging the table. Next, they might take one step toward it, then another. At first, reinforcement could follow each action – even looking at or standing near the table!

Gradually, as the child gains comfort, more progress is required before reinforcement is delivered. Eventually, sitting at the table and completing one problem becomes doable because the child feels safe and successful in reaching each milestone.

3. Desensitization

Shaping also plays an important role in desensitization, helping individuals overcome fears or discomfort associated with certain situations. For example, consider a student who refuses to use a school bathroom. If a direct approach is taken (e.g. forcing the student to enter the bathroom), the result could be further anxiety and resistance. Instead, shaping offers a gentler, more effective path forward.

The process might begin by asking the student to stand a few steps away from the bathroom and reinforcing for this small step. Once comfortable, they could move one step closer, touch the door, or peek inside. Each level of progress is met with reinforcement, ensuring the student feels in control and safe throughout the process. This gradual exposure helps reduce anxiety while building confidence, making the seemingly impossible task achievable.

4. Medical or Health-Related Goals

Shaping is also invaluable when teaching learners new health-related behaviors. Consider a child learning to swallow a pill for the first time. Starting with a full-sized pill may lead to rejection or refusal. Instead, shaping breaks the task into digestible steps.

Initially, the learner might swallow something small and familiar, such as a tiny candy or a grain of rice. Over time, they could work up to slightly larger objects, like an M&M or Skittle, until they’re able to swallow a pill of the required size comfortably. Each step prepares the learner for success without creating stress or aversion.

Flexibility & Adaptation

It’s important to remember that shaping requires flexibility. Progress is not always linear, and learners may need extra time before advancing to the next step. Sometimes, a step might even need to be made smaller to meet the learner’s current ability level. Going back and forth on the “ladder” is okay. What matters is that the learner feels successful and supported, no matter where they are in the process.

Additionally, instructors and caregivers who are using shaping must remain observant. Every learner is unique, and their progress will depend on factors such as motivation, environment, and past experiences (including trauma). A sensitive, individualized approach is essential to ensure learners experience each step as a positive achievement.


Shaping is an incredibly valuable strategy in ABA, capable of unlocking growth and change in areas ranging from communication to behavior management to skill building. By focusing on small, achievable steps and reinforcing progress along the way, we encourage learners to move closer to their goals in safe, doable, and empowering ways.

Whether encouraging students to request their favorite toy, desensitizing them to a stressful situation, or building foundational skills for independence, shaping allows us to meet learners where they are and guide them toward success. Its flexibility and wide application make it a tool that deserves more attention in every behavior plan. With patience, reinforcement, and shaping, transform challenges into growth opportunities.

3 thoughts on “Behavior Shaping & Gradual Steps Toward Positive Change”

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  2. Hello Shayna and Shira: I am CEO of a 20 yr pre hire assessment company for police called BPAD (Behavioral Personnel Assessment Devices). We use realistic video scenarios in a role play format to screen police candidates (and for promotions). We are looking at using our videos for behavioral training for police officers. While we have a large catalog of the video scenarios, we are looking for a behavioral training framework. Your “video modeling” piece is of particular interest but we also need a coherent A to Z approach. Have you done any work with law enforcement? This is badly needed in the profession and I have a team interested in this as a “start up” endeavor.
    How could we connect on this?

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