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Episode 207: What to Do When Kids Struggle to Engage in Play

Play is a fundamental part of childhood. So, what happens when a child struggles to engage in play? In this episode, we explore the many forms play can take, why it’s essential for development, and how to support learners who find it challenging.

We break down what “play” really means (beyond just pretend scenarios). This includes everything from sports and games to musical instruments and picture books. We talk about common barriers to play such as social challenges, sensory sensitivities, and limited interests. And we discuss how to meet kids where they are by shaping existing interests into meaningful, engaging activities.

You’ll hear practical strategies for teaching and supporting play: using visual models, offering choices, setting up structured yet flexible play environments, and carefully selecting peers for playdates. We also discuss the value of parallel play and when to pivot from play to leisure skills—emphasizing that enjoyment and engagement are what matter most.

For help working on playing board games with your learners, download our free Board Game Cue Cards below!

What’s Inside:

  • What is play? 
  • Identifying common barriers that make it challenging for some children to engage in play.
  • Strategies for supporting and shaping meaningful play experiences.
  • Pivoting from play skills to leisure skills for lifelong enjoyment.

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